Is it time to change your strategy when it comes to finding love? Should you shift your focus away from relationships? Scroll through the gallery to read your love and sex horoscopes for September 2019.
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Virgo - 22 Aug to 22 Sept
Some small conflicts and issues may arise in your relationships this month. Newlyweds or young couples may face some resistance or judgment from other people. Attached Virgos may realise petty issues become more irritating to them now. Luckily, Virgos are feeling well-equipped to handle these hiccups. In fact, you feel as if you can relax and properly handle each issue according to your desires and needs, even when it comes to bedroom affairs. September is the month where you realise that you don’t need to meet every problem as if you’re about to go to war. Instead, learn to relax more and tackle these issues in a leisurely pace for both you and your loved ones.
Libra - 23 Sept to 22 Oct
Harmony is important to Libras and this month; you will very much take on a mediator role. Whether it is in your own relationship or that of your family’s, you will try to keep the peace and find the most amicable solution to issues. However, you must be careful not to become too involved in other people’s problems. Furthermore, avoid becoming too submissive, whether when it comes to emotions or sexual matters. Stand your ground where it counts and make sure you get what you are entitled to. As long as you can keep this balance, you will be able to make it through this month better than you started. It can be difficult to maintain harmony, but the end result is worth it.
Scorpio - 23 Oct to 22 Nov
Again, Scorpios will focus on their needs and desires in September. Though it can be painful, you will have the strength to cut away relationships that aren’t working out. For those with families, you need to take on a more dominant but motherly role in the lives of your children. Single Scorpios, on the other hand, will have to rekindle relationships that were put on hold last month. While the beginning is a bit rocky, Scorpios will find that, further into the month, their relationships will be much smoother, providing a safe emotional space for Scorpios and their loved ones. This is a good time to focus more on emotions than physical attraction.
Sagittarius - 23 Nov to 20 Dec
If you and your partner also work or run a business together, then this is a prosperous time for the both of you. However, if not, then you must make sure to let your loved ones know how busy you are. There just isn’t enough time for romance this month. Rather than trying to force anything or make promises, be frank that you just don’t have the time. Let them know that this period will pass, and your success is meant to be theirs as well. In terms of social life, many connections will be made through work and business. However, don’t put sex into the equation, especially if you’re planning to use that connection for work.
Capricorn - 21 Dec to 19 Jan
Like many other signs, Capricorns are caught up in a work haze. You love your work right now, but that leaves little time for home life or friends and family, or even sex. It is important you try to balance your time and schedule to avoid unwanted conflicts or hurt feelings. Focusing on your love life can be equally as freeing. Relationships are set to take on a new level of honesty and passion this month, so be prepared for that wild ride. Single Capricorns will have potential to form relationships and meet new friends, as long as they can pull their head out of work every now and then.
Aquarius - 20 Jan to 18 Feb
Aquarians are a whirlwind when it comes to their home or romance. You are in need of constant stimulation and may utilise that desire to redecorate or rearrange your home. Single Aquarians will focus more on individuals who can connect with them on a mental level. It is advisable they seek out hobbies that allow them to meet intellectually focused people; such as puzzles or chess. Aquarians may worry about how they will be seen doing the things they want, but this is a time where they should let go of their fear and pursue their interests and romances freely and passionately, even in the bedroom.
Pisces - 19 Feb to 20 Mar
There is potential for strong and beautiful romantic love in September. While attached Pisceans feel the need for some grand romantic gesture to spice up and renew the emotional ties with their partners, conflicts and arguments can still arise—mainly if a Piscean’s dreamy nature clashes with someone more grounded or logic-focused. These can be constructive discussions though, as long as you don’t completely dismiss your partner’s perspective. Understanding each other can help couples grow closer and strengthen a relationship. Take time to listen to your partner, whether he’s talking about his life or trying to discuss bedroom matters.
Aries - 21 Mar to 20 Apr
This month, Aries individuals take some of their personal feelings out of their love life, to focus on work. This isn’t all bad though as you start to see your social life in a more objective light. You will be able to see the flaws and issues in a relationship—the kind that the proud and brilliant Aries may have been a bit nervous about bringing up when things are already so positive, such as your imperfect sex life. In this month, you will be able to bring them up without fear or nervousness. And you will find that you’ve really had nothing to worry about. In fact, you’ll be able to move forward in your relationship once you’ve had these discussions.
Taurus - 20 Apr to 21 May
The sun doesn’t just shine in work, it shines brightly in your home life too. There will be many things going on in your household or with your family and friends. Taurians will have to choose wisely how to spend their time because you can’t be in all places at once. If you make a promise to someone, ensure that you keep it. Attached Taurians have a chance to rekindle some spark in their romance, while single Taurians have a higher potential to meet someone life-changing. This month, listen to your heart and what you desire out of love, whether it has to do with your feelings or what you want in bed.
Gemini - 21 May to 20 Jun
The Gemini’s home life continues to thrive this month. There will be many things that require your attention and you love it. Whatever changes you make to your home will have a positive impact. However, when it comes to people in your home, you may have to take caution. You may be so busy making changes that you don’t take into account the feelings of the family, or you may start petty conflicts when you are frustrated with other matters. It is important to keep your loved ones close in your decisions. Make sure everything is always sorted out fairly and there is no bias on your or their part. This is the secret to a happy home life.
Cancer - 21 Jun to 20 Jul
This month, you should focus on the more traditional values of family and love. Ironically, to focus on these values, you will have to break out of the way you traditionally approach love and people. Both attached and single Cancerians will find that by breaking out of their shell (even out of their sexual comfort zone), they can find peace with their past and move forward to a better future. You only want good people in your life now and you will do everything in your power to meet and keep those people in your life. Conversations will be stimulating and enlightening this month, so don’t be afraid to initiate them on your own.
Leo - 21 Jul to 21 Aug
The more practical side of love creeps into Leos’ relationships this month. Attached Leos will find that discussions of budget, school and household will occur more this month. These aren’t bad discussions to have, but they can leave you frustrated—so it’s easy for you to accidentally start conflicts amongst loved ones. Single Leos will focus on finding a partner who suits their values rather than just a fast romance or one-night stands. This can be a month of growth, but Leos have to understand that growth takes time. It is best if they can learn to hold back their tongue and see the benefit of going slow.