It might not be the only thing that’s important in a relationship, but when it comes to making things last, good sex is really important. Much as I love a vibrator (so convenient, so guaranteed) I have to admit that really good sex is not about flicking a switch and rushing to the finish line – it’s more of a slow burn.
Really great sex is about priming yourself for pleasure well before you go skin to skin, so that when you do, you are totally in the moment.
It sounds ridiculously simple, but indulging your senses switches them on, so a hot night can start with something as simple as smelling an orange. Try experimenting with some of these ways and see how they raise your erotic energy.
Text: Tara Barker