Maybe you’re an independent woman who doesn’t need a man to pay for your stuff. Or maybe you like being taken care of and see no shame in asking your boyfriend for a nice little treat every now and then. Not that it really matters what your preference is, of course. Different strokes for different strokes, right? But for the sake of understanding how people around us are similar to (or very different from) us, we asked four girls to tell us about whether they’d ask their boyfriends for money.