Getting cheated on sucks. But breaking up doesn’t always have to be the next course of action—not if your partner is remorseful and you still see a future with him. Can’t decide if you should leave or stay in this instance? It might help to first assess you level of investment in the relationship.
“Reflect on your reasons for wanting to stay or leave. Draw up a table of the pros and cons of staying and trying to make it work, or cutting your losses and leaving,” says Dr Sara Delia Menon, Clinical Psychologist at Alliance Professional Counselling LLP.
Whichever decision you’re leaning towards, there are various considerations you might want to take into account. She shares more about some of the things to think about.