Want to know if this month will mean good luck in terms of your relationship and sex life? Or if you and your loved ones might get into an argument soon? Scroll through the gallery to read your love and sex horoscopes for July 2019.
Text: Renaye Chan/Alchemy Consultancy Services
Cancerians have always been a very accommodating sign. They love making their loved ones happy, but sometimes forget to make themselves happy. This month, that changes. You are finally seeing that there is nothing wrong to be a little selfish. While this sudden change in attitude can cause a bit of clash with your partner or family, it is a positive step forward. Take advantage of this confidence to make the hard decisions that you couldn’t make before. Now is not the time to hesitate. You can make a new, more stable beginning for yourself. Follow your heart and trust in the choices that you make. Learn to put your own needs ahead of others and don’t be afraid to stand your ground in a relationship. This month, make sure you care for yourself and love yourself in every way, even in the bedroom.
Leos also need to learn the lesson of taking a step back in their love life. This month is likely to be frustrating for both you and your partner. Conflicting opinions could place a wedge between you and your partner and you might find yourself not wanting to spice it up in the bedroom. This month, you should be more of a supporter, instead of the one taking charge of all ideas. Your efforts will be greatly appreciated in return. At the same time, you must also learn to separate yourself from the relationship and look at your needs as an individual. Learn to balance your individuality against your partner’s needs and demands. Do not rush ahead, instead take time to reflect and make sure that your actions are the right ones to take. Again, take this as a time to learn patience and appreciation for slow steadiness.
In both their love and sex life, Virgoans may feel like they’re stuck in a bit of a rut. Be it with your current partners or new people you meet, you may feel like you are reliving the same problems repeatedly. Now is the time, that you should step back and look at the big picture. What is causing these problems to repeat? What actions are you taking that are not benefitting yourself? Now is the time for change, but you must first decipher what needs to be changed about yourself. More often than not, these obstacles are self-created. Learn to prioritise your own needs and desires from time to time. It will help you break the cycles you have caught yourself in.
Libras are starting to yearn for something much simpler this month. You want to give into your base desires for carefree fun and time under the sun. However, last month’s effects are still taking hold over you. You may find that you simply do not have the time to engage in fun activities. That or you and your spouse are still trying to sort out conflicts left over from June. That doesn’t mean that you should completely exclude yourself from relaxing though. This month, try to initiate being intimate with your partner and be the one to set the mood. You have to find some fun for yourself and your partner. Also, find at least one day to put aside your worries and conflicts and enjoy yourself with those closest to you.
The restlessness from last month continues this month, only, you are more willing to start making changes to your attitude or lifestyle in order to break out of a cycle. While you’re rushing ahead, however, your loved ones will be left behind in the wings. You may not want to slow down for them, and they may not be able to speed up for you. Instead, look to try and compromise with them. This month, comprise and meeting your partner halfway is key, talk to your partner to find out what they want and maybe even try doing what your partner wants in the bedroom for a change. (You might end up really enjoying it.) Do not fault them for the pace they’re going at but help them understand why you want to rush ahead or make changes to your current lifestyle. You may find that simply talking can resolve more issues than causing a conflict can.
Family is important to you this month. Matters of the past may come back to life, either bringing about renewed conflict or discussion. July is a time where bonds are either strengthened or meant to be cut away. Sagittarians may not know it, but they are in the right mood to finally tackle difficult issues in a relationship. Judgement aids you in this task. The path forward isn’t easy, but you understand it is a necessary one to move forward. However, understand that you do not need to venture ahead alone. Don’t be afraid to be honest and open up to your partner about what you feel about everything, this could even mean a better love and sex life. You can also find support and encouragement in your loved ones. They are the reason that you are even moving forward in the first place. Their happiness and yours are tied together deeply.
Capricorns are under a bit of stress from various areas of their lives this month. What’s more, you feel painfully oversensitive and ready to burst at any moment. This month you could feel extra sensitive and maybe even sexually frustrated. The slightest word or action can accidentally set you off and lead to a blow out that can hurt you and your loved ones. This is not the best time to meet new people or start dating. Instead, you should focus your sights on your current homelife. You need a safe space for yourself. If there are issues at home, you should try to resolve them, but also remember to take time away from them. Those you trust and cherish will be especially important this month, so don’t be afraid to let your walls down around them.
This month can be a bit confusing when it comes to love, sex relationships. Those closest to you may start conflicts or drag out an issue from last month. You can expect that your partner might even suddenly show signs of sexual frustrations, that he will expect you to help him deal with. However, through all of this, some people who you thought you left behind may come forward with unexpected support. Surprisingly, it will likely be decisions about the household or living space that may help to reconcile any arguments this month but don’t think that you can brush aside conflict so easily that way. There is still a core problem you must prepare yourself to address or else it will continue to repeat. Be ready if any of your relatives or loved ones fall ill this month — they will require your care.
Your relationships, sex life and personal life demand your attention this month. You need to take more action this month and can’t rely on what everyone else wants. You must consider your own needs and feelings. It’s okay to be a bit blunt with your emotions and the steps you wish to take to move forward. Make sure you voice out anything that is upsetting you in the bedroom to your partner, honesty is always key to an amazing sex life. You have been blessed with a newfound confidence to start carving your path ahead as you’d like. However, be cautious with who you have around you. As this confidence can turn to irritability, make sure you are careful around those who may unintentionally annoy you. Focus on the positives, instead of letting your energy turn ugly to others.
The slow pace of work may manifest as a desire to make changes in your relationship, home life and sex life. Luckily, your social life is bound to be more fast paced and demanding. You may find that you have increased expenses when it comes to the household. However, these expenses are something you are happy to pay for. Most relationships are also improving this month, but you will have to be careful. Your lips may be a bit loose this month, so you are at risk of being too blunt to your loved ones or people you just met. This can put some people off, so be sure that you always think twice before you say anything. The good thing is this month will be amazing for you and your partner in the bedroom all month long.
July is a time of conflict. Taurians may find themselves in the middle of quarrels with loved ones, roped into the arguments between your relatives and fighting with your partner over the smallest things. Your calm and often logical perspective make you a popular person for others to approach when they need help with resolving an issue. While you can make a difference, you must still guard yourself from getting emotionally involved. Remember to draw a line. Luckily, while most conflicts occur this month, they are also likely to reconcile this month. Try to be optimistic about conflicts. While they may be hard to get through, they bring up issues that you may need to discuss in a relationship. You are still continuing to grow.
Things will slowly start to shift your way this month. While you may still have to tackle several issues left over from last month, you will find that things will be settled in a fair and just way. However, it is important that you continue to put in effort in your relationships, as you might be feeling a little lazy this month. You may wish to put aside problems or parties and simply spend a day relaxing at home. In bed, you might find yourself feeling a bit more needy with your partner, which is completely understandable. You aren’t in the mood to socialise or to attempt new meetings. Instead, you’d rather laze about with those you already know and enjoy your time doing something familiar.There is nothing wrong with this, but remember to not be too shut in.