If you don’t have time for sex, you’re not alone. One of the gripes of living in the 21st century is that we never seem to have time to do things that we really want. Unfortunately, this includes sex. It’s a common situation couples find themselves in – the need to schedule sex into their calendars so there’s still some physical intimacy in the relationship. Or, if you’ve been with your partner for a long time, sex could just be a part of your routine now and could even feel like a bit of an obligation you just want to get over and done with.
So what if we told you there’s an easy way to spice up your sex life? The answer comes (no pun intended) in the form of spontaneous sex. Yes, we’re giving you the licence to jump on your man whenever you feel like it—as long as you’re alone, that is.
Why is spontaneous sex good for your relationship?
It’s more satisfying
If you’ve ever had problems trying to get in the mood, you’ll know that you need to strike while the iron is hot, for best results. So when you feel horny around your man, don’t wait for a more ‘convenient’ time, just go for it instead. It’s thrilling and you’ll get satisfied a lot easier – and in a more fun way – too.
It boosts your partner’s confidence
If you grab your man when he least expects it and show him just how much you want him right then and there, he’ll feel amazing. You’ll make him feel irresistible and he’ll know that you’re so attracted to him that you just can’t wait to have your wicked way with him. Of course, the hope is that he reciprocates and makes you feel the same way too by getting spontaneous with you.
It’s exciting and honest
There’s nothing like getting something when you want it, and the same can be applied to this situation too – there’s nothing like having sex with your man when you just have to have him. It won’t feel like an obligation or an event in your calendar you have to tick off. Instead, it’s sincere because it’s what you feel at that point in time and you want to share the moment with your man. And, when spontaneous sex is something that you both do as a couple, it’ll add an extra level of excitement to your relationship because you just never know when one of you will pounce on the other so you’ll always be on high alert – in a good way.