Would you sleep with a guy on a first date? We get that we always get split opinions when it comes to this topic. Some people think you’re moving too fast, while others think it’s no big deal, especially if you feel a connection with your date. We asked five girls to tell us what their modus operandi is when it comes to sex and dating in Singapore. Scroll through the gallery to find out what they think.
“No matter how amazing a connection I have with a guy, I don’t sleep with him until at least the fifth date, because at least then I know we like each other enough and he’s worth me sharing a piece of myself with. Besides, it’s important to demonstrate self-respect. We teach people how we should be treated.”
“I didn’t use to, but the older I get, the less of a s**t I give. If I sleep with him on the first date, at least I know right off the bat if we’re good together in bed—it’s definitely something I take into account when deciding if I should be with a guy.”
“No. I don’t think it’ll give the guy a good impression of me even if the sex was great, and honestly, I wouldn’t have a good impression of him either.”
“I’ve done it a couple of times before. Sometimes, after the deed is done, things get weird. But other times, the guy and I can still hang out or even date. It just depends on who you meet and the sort of person they are, so there’s no right or wrong thing to do.”
“I don’t, and I don’t think most guys who are sincere actually want to sleep with a girl on the first date either. Plus, it’s quite fun to leave an air of mystery. It gives the both of you something to look forward to.”