Would you sleep with a guy on a first date? There’s usually a mixed bag of opinions when it comes to this—some people think getting down and dirty with someone you just met is moving too fast, while others reckon it’s no big deal and gets all of that awkwardness out of the way. We asked six girls to tell us what their modus operandi is when it comes to f**king someone they just met.
“It depends on how well we connect, and if I’m drunk enough. I think it’s OK to sleep with someone on the first date as long as you manage your expectations and not assume that that means he owes you a text reply the next day.”
“No matter how amazing a connection I have with a guy, I don’t sleep with him until at least the fifth date, because at least then I know we like each other enough and he’s worth me sharing a piece of myself with. Besides, it’s important to demonstrate self-respect. We teach people how we should be treated.”
“I didn’t use to, but the older I get, the less of a s**t I give. If I sleep with him on the first date, at least I know right off the bat if we’re good together in bed—it’s definitely something I take into account when deciding if I should be with a guy.”
“No. I don’t think it’ll give the guy a good impression of me even if the sex was great, and honestly, I wouldn’t have a good impression of him either.”
“I’ve done it a couple of times before. Sometimes, after the deed is done, things get weird. But other times, the guy and I can still hang out or even date. It just depends on who you meet and the sort of person they are, so there’s no right or wrong thing to do.”
“I don’t, and I don’t think most guys who are sincere actually want to sleep with a girl on the first date either. Plus, it’s quite fun to leave an air of mystery. It gives the both of you something to look forward to.”