Sometimes it can be frustrating when you and your man are just starting to get hot and heavy, then before you know it, it’s over because he orgasmed first. With a babe like yourself, can you blame him? No. But it definitely can leave us ladies feeling extremely unsatisfied when sex is over in five minutes, especially when it takes around 20 minutes for women to reach orgasm.
All is not lost, there are sex positions you can get into to get your man to slow down so you both can hit the jackpot together. Think shallow penetration and to take things slow—deep thrusting will send him over the edge, and in this case, that’s not the goal here. Buckle up ‘cos you’re in for a loooooong ride.
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Remember what we said about shallow penetration? Yep, make that your motto when it comes to making sex last long enough for you to get off too. Lying on your sides facing each other is great for putting thrusting at bay. This position will require some maneuvering to get him to penetrate you so make sure his pelvis is lower than yours. Once he’s in, wrap your top leg around him and side hustle your way to gold.
This position can be a bit tricky to get into, but once you both get the hang of it—it’ll be your new go-to. For this to work, he’s lying on his side facing you, while you’re on your back but perpendicular to him with your butt right up his private parts and knees bent over his body with your feet snug behind his butt. If you think of it, you’re both at a 90-degree angle and he can easily penetrate you when your knees are spread apart. Attaboy, he’s ready to rumble.
If there’s a flat surface in the house for your man to sit on, bench him and get busy. Any seated position is great for marathon sex, whether you’re both seated on the bed wrapped around each other or you’re riding him on the dining room chair. It nice to be able to make out with your partner while having sex and while penetration is deep while seated, he can’t thrust so the slow burn is on. Talk about giving new meaning to ‘bench warming’ eh?
It’s time to take matters into your own hands, take the reins so you get you way. When you’re in control of the speed you get to slow down the pace to your liking, so yes girl, time to climb on top of the man and show him who’s boss. This is a great time to get him to talk you through how he’s going (great for getting some dirty talk in) so you can get things back on track if he’s close. Nothing’s hotter than a girl in charge. Get it, girl!
Text: Alicia Tan
